Elope in Asheville | Definitive Guide to Crafting Your Dream Elopement [2025]

The Definitive Guide to Creating the Adventurous Elopement of your Dreams in Asheville

Hey y’all—welcome! We’d love to share with you our definitive guide to crafting your dream elopement in Asheville. With years of experience and over 100 elopements planned and photographed, we’ve poured everything we know into this guide to help you design an unforgettable day. It’s a detailed, almost encyclopedic read, so feel free to jump around using the table of contents or settle in with a cup of coffee to explore it all. Either way, we’re here to help you bring your vision to life!

Asheville has so many epic landscapes to choose from!

Why Elope in Asheville?

Having photographed and planned over 100 elopements in the Southeast and visited 50+ national parks across the U.S., it’s become second nature for us to recognize what makes a truly exceptional elopement location. It’s not only about natural beauty—it’s about finding that perfect mix of elements so we can create diverse experiences for our couples. Imagine you want to create the perfect & unique meal and you stumble on a farmers market that has everything and more that you’re looking for! In our experience, great elopement destinations need to check these boxes:

Diverse Natural Experiences: More than a great view in one spot or a popular waterfall; great destinations have a multi-dimensional aspect to the great outdoors that stands above the rest.
Road access: Something we take for granted but being able to drive where you need to go and not spend hours in the car is a key component! For example, we LOVE visiting Yellowstone but if you’re going to sightsee, expect to drive a lot!
Elopement-Specific Vendors: Many locations are wedding destinations but the best elopement destinations offer a wide selection of vendors who specialize in unique weddings & smaller group sizes.
Local Culture: Just like you want a unique wedding day, where you visit should resonate with you too!
Proximity to Nature and City: Unless you want to go completely off grid and camp out in the wild (which, is a thing!) most of us like the comforts of come. Great elopement destinations have the wild at the doorstep of great Airbnbs and lodging options.

Asheville offers incredible Airbnbs, elopement specific vendors and more!

Now, let’s talk about how Asheville checks all these boxes and more!

First, what truly sets Asheville apart is its incredible diversity of outdoor experiences. Imagine crafting a multi-dimensional day: hiking through lush, moss-covered forests reminiscent of the Pacific Northwest, discovering crystal-clear mountain streams, or finding secluded swimming holes at the base of waterfalls. Hike to mountain tops with views that go on for miles, or rent a Jeep and drive some (sketchy) national forest roads to big views too! And for most of these locations you’re never more than an hour away from a place to stay or grabbing a bite to eat. Starting your day with adventure and ending at one of Asheville’s many unique restaurants (or having an amazing private chef prepare dinner for you at your airbnb) is entirely possible!

Speaking of places to stay, the Asheville area is covered with unique Airbnbs with something for everyone. You can stay in a cozy A-frame for two or book a huge cabin with space for a large group (some even allow ceremonies on site too).

Asheville is also a well-established wedding destination, which means a thriving wedding economy that supports vendors who specialize in elopements too. They are like boutique artisans, ready to cater to every small detail of your day without the constraints of group minimums or cookie-cutter packages.

Overall, Asheville has that perfect blend of having something for everyone while encompassing a broad diversity of experiences, so we can create unique experiences for our couples in this area time and time again. Which takes us to our next topic — think a little beyond the Asheville vicinity. Read on to learn more!

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Why You Should Think Beyond Asheville for your elopement

While Asheville is popular for destination weddings and elopements, we should say that most aren’t looking to get married within the city itself. You can have a fun city elopement in Asheville but know that it’s a bustling city (especially during peak tourist seasons). Couples we work with are after seclusion, so for us it’s more about the natural areas outside the city! For that reason we’d encourage you to think a little beyond Asheville itself and even to the greater region of Western NC and to smaller towns that offer a more intimate experience.

This is where our expertise across all of Western North Carolina (and beyond!) comes in. We know every hidden gem in the region and can guide you to places that perfectly match your style, whether it’s close to Asheville or further out in the mountains.

So as we move forward in this guide, know that we’re using a little bit of license to recommend places that aren’t exactly in or near Asheville, but to show you places that are in the region that our couples have loved for elopements! In fact, many couples come to us thinking of Asheville but end up somewhere else in NC or in another state entirely. That’s totally ok, and why we’re here — to help you find the perfect place to elope!

Wondering about the area after Hurricane Helene?

If you’re reading this, thank you for considering the recovery the region is still going through! Regarding what the situation is for places to elope after Helene, the answer is … it’s complicated. Everything comes down to local specifics. We’ve been to places that are pristine and unaffected by Helene, and then literally a mile around the corner — the road is gone. Entire waterfalls have been reshaped. Entire communities have disappeared.

But don’t let that discourage you from visiting or eloping here! There is so much to see, and we would all love to welcome you for your celebration in the Asheville area. Coming here would mean so much to us to help us recover and to be a part of your story. If you want to know more, here is our post about Where to elope in NC after Hurricane Helene.

Best Places to Elope in Asheville | Public & Private Lands

If you’re thinking about eloping in the Asheville area, you’re probably imagining the iconic layered Blue Ridge mountain views, lush forests, clear (and cold!) mountain streams, and LOTS of waterfalls. But what many don’t realize is that the Asheville area is made up of a diverse tapestry of public and private lands. Why is this important? Each has a unique “personality,” differences in infrastructure of trails and more (which affects accessibility for any guests)—and their own rules and requirements too.

Navigating this landscape can be complex, especially when it comes to things like permits, accessibility, and finding the right spot that matches your vision while remaining practical. Below is a quick overview of the types of lands you’ll encounter!

A quick note though … Your elopement day is so much more than just picking a scenic backdrop. And definitely don’t just research a place online and assume it’s a good fit for you. While it’s tempting to rely on online lists of popular places, those lists don’t tell the full story. It’s important to work with an expert with local knowledge to design your day; and we work with you to design a cohesive, meaningful experience that blends the best locations for your elopement day vision.

So let’s dive into some of the best, most popular places to elope in Asheville!

Blue Ridge Parkway

The Blue Ridge Parkway is often called the “motor road,” with good reason: it offers drive-up access to epic views! Back in the day (before kids) we used to ride the road on a motorcycle (one time we even went end to end, from the smokies all the way to Shenandoah National Park). Whether on a motorcycle or in a car, you have a “in the clouds” feeling that is almost like flying. There’s nothing like looking out your window and seeing views as far as the eye can see.

With this ease of drive-up views, the Parkway is also a bit ironic in that most of the overlooks are right next to the road. Our advice? Hike just a little bit away from the Parkway, if you can, for more privacy. Most people don’t venture more than ¼ mile off of the motor road, and if you’re willing to hike a bit, you can experience seclusion on your day.

The Blue Ridge Parkway might be a good fit for you if:

You have a group that cannot hike and need a drive-up ceremony spot
You like seeing big views that are easy to access
You don’t mind other tourists around

More top things to know about getting married on the Parkway:

Permits need to be requested at least 30 days in advance.
They don’t allow live flowers because of the concern of invasive species.
Group size for weddings is 25 max (including your photographer, officiant, guests … everyone)
It is incredibly busy in October. Think bumper to bumper traffic. Some places are less busy than others, and yes, you can find seclusion on the Parkway in peak season. Just ask us how!
For more info regarding Parkway permits and wedding regulations in general, visit this link: Blue Ridge Parkway Wedding Permits.
For more insider information about getting married on the Parkway, check out our Guide here: Blue Ridge Parkway Wedding Guide.

Pisgah National Forest

Pisgah National Forest is huge—we’re talking over 500,000 acres of high elevation mountains (some over 6000ft), countless waterfalls, and neverending forests. It’s mostly composed of hardwood trees that are common to the east coast, but you’ll also find red spruce and fraser fit which give the vibe of the Pacific Northwest. Don’t miss the cascading whitewater rivers, and epic high mountain balds where you can catch true 360 degree views — a rarity on the east coast.

This place is also really important historically because it was the first land bought to create national forests in the eastern US. It also had the country’s first forestry school and two of the earliest protected wilderness areas in the east. This National Forest is so big it’s split into the Pisgah, Grandfather, and Appalachian Ranger Districts.

Much of Pisgah is accessed via the Blue Ridge Parkway, which has seasonal closures, so be careful planning for a Pisgah National Forest elopement if it’s the off season. It’s also the most popular destination by far in the state for outdoor adventure, so be careful expecting privacy (we know the hidden gems though!)

A Pisgah National Forest wedding might be a good fit for you if:

You want to get a little more out into the wild and don’t mind hiking
You can tolerate other visitors at popular spots
You want to get to the highest spots anywhere on the east coast (summer is gorgeous here!)
You have a smaller group size (we suggest less than 15, or just the two of you)

We wrote a whole other blog post about getting married in Pisgah if you want to dive deeper! Check out our Guide to a Pisgah National Forest Elopement.

Nantahala National Forest

Nantahala National Forest is nestled in the mountains and valleys of southwestern North Carolina and is actually the biggest of the four National Forests in the state. We’re talking about a half million acres, with elevations ranging from 5,800 feet at Lone Bald to 1,200 feet along the Hiwassee River. The forest is split into three districts: Cheoah, Tusquitee, and Nantahala – all named after Cherokee words, by the way! “Nantahala” actually means “land of the noon day sun” – a perfect name for the Nantahala Gorge, where the sun only hits the valley floor at midday.

The Nantahala National Forest was established in 1920 to protect watersheds, provide timber, and regulate the flow of navigable streams. Nowadays, it’s a haven for outdoor activities like whitewater rafting, camping, hiking, mountain biking, horseback riding, and off-roading, with over 600 miles of trails to explore!

Being further away from Asheville and comprised mostly of smaller towns (like Bryson City), we love Nantahala for it’s seclusion. It honestly feels like the last wild part of the state, especially if you get towards the more “remote” areas around Robbinsville.

A Nantahala National Forest elopement might be a good fit for you if:

You want to prioritize privacy more than anything else
You don’t mind driving a little bit more, or hiking a little bit more, to experience seclusion and epic spots
You don’t need the high end lodging or restaurant scene of Asheville (although, lots of great places we can show you in Nantahala!)
You’re looking for something … different.

North Carolina State Parks

In contrast to the vast expanse of National Forests, NC state parks offer a more focused experience at a beautiful outdoor location. For example, Mt Mitchell State Park (the first NC state park to be established) was created to preserve the tallest peak in NC (and the highest east of the Mississippi) and protect it from development. That common thread weaves through all the state parks in NC.

On the other hand, each state park is unique in management and wedding policies. Some do allow weddings, but what they do allow & permit situation changes all the time (for example, Grandfather Mountain is a lovely place for a ceremony but they have stopped allowing weddings at the time of this writing. Read more in our Grandfather Mountain Wedding Guide).

Chimney Rock State Park is also one of our favorites for group friendly infrastructure (some sites are accessible) and a variety of scenic sites approved for wedding ceremonies. You can experience panoramic viewpoints at “the” Chimney Rock to more intimate settings such as the Outdoor Classroom. These spots allow group sizes from 10 to 150 guests. (A couple notes: These spots are available seasonally; it’s a busy park so they exclude holidays and holiday weekends; also — due to Hurricane Helene, Chimney Rock State Park is closed for the foreseeable future).

Our advice: Don’t start with looking at a state park for your wedding but instead think about what your day looks like and then see if there are state parks that fit your needs. NC state parks bridge the gap between a full outdoor experience like a national forest and a park-like setting with facilities for groups (like picnic shelters, etc) but it’s important to remember that they are not wedding venues and you’ll be around the general public.

An NC State Park elopement or wedding might be the right match for you if:

You have a larger group of people that you need to accommodate
You like the ability to reserve a time and date at a specific spot
You want an outdoor wedding in a park-like setting (with restrooms and picnic shelters)
You’re not so big on hiking to scenic places

North Carolina State Forests

Probably the most popular NC state forest for recreation is Dupont State Forest. Not to go into too many details but the mission behind NC State forests is not the same as the parks; to the point that Dupont recently cracked down on elopements happening in the state forest. The only approved wedding location in Dupont is the Guion Farm picnic shelter. There’s a lot more behind this policy so we would check out their website for the most up to date info: Dupont State Park wedding permit.

Apart from an actual ceremony, our understanding is that portrait photography is not prohibited in the state forest so often we will have a wedding ceremony somewhere else and then come to Dupont for a fun hike to a waterfall!

Small Town Parks

Often overlooked, these parks can provide excellent locations for elopements; typically with low permit costs and fewer restrictions than the more popular places. They are small in size so are more suited to a quick ceremony than an adventure. One of our favorite spots for an epic sunset is Jumpoff Rock!

Airbnb wedding venues

If you like the conveniences of a venue but want something more unique & want to stay in one place, event-friendly Airbnbs are a great option. Choosing an Airbnb wedding allows you to have your ceremony, reception, and lodging all in one spot, offering privacy and flexibility. The Asheville area has a massive selection of vacation rentals & we have a curated list of the best airbnb wedding properties in the region.

An Airbnb wedding might be a good fit for you if:

You have a group size less than 25 (15 or less is ideal; although we’ve had some properties allow 50 attendees)
You like the idea of a gorgeous vacation home as your “blank canvas” to craft a wedding day experience from
You want privacy above all else
You have family (kids, grandparents especially) that don’t travel well and need the comforts of home nearby
Your idea of an intimate wedding is a family gathering

We should point out though, vacation rentals are not venues so … while they offer a lot of conveniences at the end of the day you’re renting a house and a lot will need to be coordinated to have an event there. Getting married at an Airbnb is a whole other topic, so to read more check out our post Airbnb wedding venues in North Carolina.

Small Wedding Venues

To round out this list, we should mention that in between the big traditional wedding venues and all of the above, there’s quite a few small, more intimate wedding venues out there too! One of our favorites is Something Blue Mountain Venue which can accommodate up to 30 guests for a ceremony and reception.

A small wedding venue in Asheville might be a good fit for you if:

You don’t really want the lodging convenience of an Airbnb wedding
You’d like a more traditional wedding day (going to a venue) but in a smaller setting
You have the budget to pay for the extras that are part of the package when booking a wedding venue
You need someplace for more than 25 guests
You don’t mind getting married in the same place that many other couples have

Is an Asheville Elopement Right for You?

To this point we’ve touched on reasons why to elope in Asheville and an overview of the diverse locations out there. There’s a lot of options, but is Asheville right for your elopement plans?

An Asheville elopement could be the perfect choice if:

You want a multi-dimensional adventure. Mountain top views, evergreen forests, epic waterfalls and more! Asheville has so much to offer beyond a simple overlook wedding.
You value privacy but want proximity to amenities. You can explore secluded waterfalls and open mountain views during the day, then not too far away stay in unique Airbnbs, enjoy incredible dining or a private chef experience.
You’re drawn to a vibrant local culture. Asheville isn’t just about nature – it’s also an amazing area for art, music, farm to table restaurants, agritourism and more. You and your guests will want to stay a whole week to see everything!
You appreciate a wide selection of elopement-specific vendors. Without the right vendors, a beautiful place to elope is missing the final piece of the puzzle, and this is where Asheville delivers for so many incredible vendors we love recommending to our couples. Hair and make-up artists who will work with small groups, private chefs, boutique cake, catering and florals. There’s lots to choose from. And beyond that there are so many specialty experiences that are elopement friendly (like hot air balloon rides!)
You don’t want to spend hours upon hours driving. Compared to big western parks (especially Yellowstone) we love how everything around Asheville feels like it’s at your fingertips.

At the end of the day, your elopement isn’t just about “where”—it’s about “how” and “why.” Don’t choose a location just because it’s beautiful—choose one that fits the flow of your day, aligns with your vision, and creates the kind of experience you’ll remember forever.

There are countless beautiful places in the Asheville area, but what truly makes your elopement special is the thoughtful design of your day. With our guidance, you can trust that your elopement will be more than just a series of pretty pictures—it will be an unforgettable experience crafted with intention and care.

If you’re wondering how we do it, take a look at this planning checklist. You’ll see just how many details go into creating the perfect elopement—and how we help make it all feel effortless!

Asheville Elopement Planning Checklist

Planning an elopement isn’t just about marking off tasks—it’s about creating an intentional, meaningful day that feels like you from start to finish. There’s a lot to think about, but don’t worry—we’re here to help you pull it all together! Here’s a checklist to get you started:

1. Decide on the Big Picture Theme for Your Day

Think beyond just the ceremony. Sure, your vows are the heart of it all, but what about the rest of the day? Tip: Start with the “why” behind your reason(s) to elope in the first place. Maybe it was to prioritize time for each other or to have an intimate celebration with your closest loved ones. Write that down—seriously, jot it on a post-it or somewhere you can keep close, so you have a guiding light for your planning.

Now, picture your elopement with that theme as a story with different chapters—getting ready, maybe an early morning hike, your ceremony, and celebrating afterward with something that’s totally you. Intentionally include (and exclude) what belongs in your day. We can’t emphasize this enough—so many couples spin their wheels in planning because they didn’t decide what was important in the first place. Sure, guest lists, budget, and locations are important logistics, but if you don’t answer the first questions first, you’ll stay stuck (and frustrated) with your planning.

2. Decide on a Ceremony Location

Where you say your vows sets the vibe for the whole day. Whether it’s a beautiful mountain overlook, a secluded waterfall, or a luxury vacation home, your location matters. Pro tip: guest count can really impact your options, so be mindful of “guest list creep”—it can have a big impact on your budget too.

“Just us” elopements offer the most flexibility, while larger groups might mean booking a venue or an event-friendly Airbnb. Don’t stress though—we’ll help you figure it all out.

3. Decide on the Plan for Other Parts of Your Day

Your elopement is more than just the moment you say “I do”—it’s the whole day (or even days) surrounding it. Go back to the roadmap you created when you decided on your “why” (please, don’t skip that step). Think about what other experiences are meaningful to you. Do you have a day that involves a lot of guests but want time for just the two of you? Then plan a secluded waterfall hike, a stop at a unique coffee shop, or a picnic—for example. Have friends coming that you want to spend quality time with? Make sure you account for hangout time early in your day while getting ready. It’s all about creating space for the memories you want to look back on forever.

4. Decide on Where to Stay

Lodging isn’t just a place to crash after your big day—with elopements, lodging often doubles as a wedding venue. It’s where key moments happen, like getting ready or even hosting the ceremony. Maybe you’re dreaming of a gorgeous treehouse for just the two of you, or maybe a larger home where you can be amongst family and friends for a dinner reception. Either way, it should fit your vision and be practical.

Tip: Always book a place with one more room than you need, so there’s an uncluttered space for getting ready photos. You don’t want all your luggage and things in the background of your photos, right?

5. Create Your Elopement Timeline

A good timeline is key to keeping things relaxed and fun. Trust us—things always take longer than you think, so plan to have some buffer time. You don’t want to be rushing through getting ready or missing those spontaneous moments because you’re on a tight schedule.

A couple of tips here: Getting ready always takes longer than you think. It’s more than just getting dressed—there’s a lot happening in the first part of your day. And leave extra time for driving, because things happen and traffic around Asheville can be really crazy sometimes!

6. Delegate Wedding Day Tasks

Here’s the thing—you shouldn’t be running around managing details on your wedding day. This is your day to soak it all in! Assign tasks to trusted friends or family members, or better yet, let us handle the coordination so you & your guests can focus on enjoying every moment. We know how to keep everything running smoothly no matter what happens!

The fact is, planning an elopement isn’t just a series of decisions—it’s an art. It takes seeing the big picture while keeping track of the little details to come up with the perfect plan for the day. Seems like a lot, right? That’s where we come in. With our guidance, you can skip the stress and focus on what really matters—each other.

Feeling overwhelmed with all the decisions needed? We’re here to help!

Hey – Mark & Carolyn here! Just a quick note from us…

By now, you’ve probably realized just how many details go into planning an elopement—or at least how we approach it with care and intention! But the good news is, you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Our job is to take that weight off your shoulders and make the entire process smooth, joyful, and totally stress-free, all while crafting a day that’s uniquely you.

According to a recent survey of engaged couples, nearly 70% were surprised by how many decisions were involved and felt unprepared for the process (check out this Zola survey for more). If that sounds familiar, don’t worry—we’re here to simplify things and guide you every step of the way!

Learn More about our Elopement Packages

When Is the Best Time to Elope in Asheville?

We’ll be honest—it’s best for us to answer this question once you reach out to us since everyone’s needs are different! Your circumstances and timing may influence your choice of date, or you may have more flexibility than you realize. Seasons are a little different in the mountains than the rest of the southeast; for example, be careful assuming that a spring date will “look” like spring in the mountains.

Here are our top tips for eloping in Asheville by season:

Spring (April–June)

Spring is a bit of a wild card in the mountains. While some may picture blooming flowers and warmer weather, some of the best spots don’t start greening up until May. Late spring (May into June) offers lush greenery and wildflowers, while March and April can still feel very much like winter with bare trees and cooler temps. But if you love a moody, quiet vibe, early spring might be just right for you!

Summer (July–August)

Summer in the Asheville area is incredible, with higher elevations bringing mild, comfortable temperatures. This is when the mountains are truly alive—vibrant greens, blooming rhododendrons, and perfect conditions for early morning hikes. Plus, summer is typically less busy than fall, making it easier to find privacy and avoid crowds. Just watch out for afternoon thunderstorms and have a backup plan (we always plan multiple backup plans!)

One of our favorite ways to create a summer elopement experience is to pair a sunrise hike with a brunch picnic for two, and then escaping the heat of the day with dipping toes in (or a swim) at the base of a secluded waterfall!

Fall (September–November)

Fall is Asheville’s peak season, thanks to the amazing light show that the trees bless us with each year. Vibrant reds, oranges, and yellows create a backdrop that is truly magical. However, fall also brings large crowds, especially on weekends. Some of the most popular locations (especially if you’re thinking a Black Balsam Knob Elopement) are literally bumper to bumper, no parking and constant streams of hikers mid-day. If privacy matters to you, weekdays are your best bet & in the fall are a must. Tip: Many people assume October for colors but they start very early at high elevations which makes mid-late September a great option too. Also, don’t sleep on early November either; it can offer beautiful colors at lower elevations with fewer people around.

Winter (December–March)

Winter in Asheville can be a peaceful experience and perfect for couples who want to avoid crowds. While definitely cold, there is something magical about having a mountain peak all to yourself, in the crisp clear air and silence of nature all around you. There’s also the opportunity for snow as well!

Winter elopements take on an extra layer of planning (no pun intended) since road closures, trail access and just weather in general can sometimes throw a wrench in the plans. For example, some high-elevation locations and the Blue Ridge Parkway can close due to ice or snow. That’s why for all winter elopements we put an even higher emphasis on backup plans.

Including Guests in Your Asheville Elopement

While eloping often means keeping things small, many couples still want to include close family and friends. We love celebrations with family and friends alongside! There’s just a few things to keep in mind when inviting guests. We want to share these things with you so you aren’t caught by surprise as your plans come together:

What to consider when inviting guests

What your experience feels like: Take it from us, we love having family along but the dynamic of an elopement for two is very, very different than when you have guests along. The more people, the more you’ll feel like you have to host or entertain them… so keep that in mind!
Guest Count: Keeping your guest list small provides more flexibility for locations. Up to 10 gives you similar selection of locations as if it were just the two of you; once you get above 15 the options start to narrow and approaching 25 it narrows even more. Typically, the more guests, the less likely you’ll be able to have an elopement “out in the wild” and need to have some kind of venue or at least an event friendly Airbnb.
Accessibility: Many scenic spots require a hike, which might not be suitable for older guests or those with limited mobility. There are mountain overlooks in places which are an easy drive up, but consider that these offer limited privacy.
Budget: Adding people to the guest list can make costs increase exponentially, so be very mindful of who it’s most important to invite! Our biggest example of this: for a “just us” elopement you can have zero cost of a ceremony location and relatively inexpensive lodging. For a group of 25, this often goes into the territory of needing to rent space (think ceremony and reception) which adds up quickly.

Why do we cover guests before talking about locations? Because quite often who you choose to invite means narrowing down your possibilities, so we want to be transparent and bring it up here first.

Where to Elope in Asheville

Let’s dive into more specifics of where to elope in Asheville! We’ll be completely up front here, what we’re suggesting below is just an overview, and the most popular places that most “everyone” knows about when eloping in Asheville.

If you want to know the local’s secrets for private and off the beaten path spots, then you need to work with someone who has the local knowledge. We don’t give away those spots here, so to learn more feel free to reach out!

For Just the Two of You

Black Balsam Knob

If you’ve ever been to Asheville and asked about the best hike around, most likely you’ve seen or heard of Black Balsam Knob. It’s an incredible, unique place. If you’re willing to hike a little more than most, you can get further from the trailhead and experience solitude — as long as it’s the right time of the year.

Black Balsam Knob is amazing at the right time, and feels like a crowded theme park at others (for example, October, period). It’s a best fit for two, although if your entire group is up for the hike, it can work for a small group.

We wrote a whole guide about the ins and outs here: Black Balsam Knob Wedding.

Max Patch

No guide about the Asheville area is complete without mentioning Max Patch. While Black Balsam Knob is home to evergreen trees, rocky outcroppings and open meadows, Max Patch is even more wide open. Imagine a mountain meadow scene with layered mountain views into the distance. It’s incredible — and super popular. It has suffered overuse in the past and the National Forest has restricted access to help it recover. We’d love to take you elsewhere to places that are just as amazing; just ask!

Looking Glass Falls

The most iconic waterfall in the area is definitely Looking Glass Falls. Like the two mountain spots above, it’s very popular. The picturesque nature plus easy access from the road make this a great tourist spot — and also not a great fit for a private elopement unless you show up early in the morning. We love taking photos here and do here and there when the time is right, but if you want a private waterfall, we know more locations that are just as beautiful!

Private Airbnb

Another great option for an elopement for two is at one of the many unique vacation homes in the area. The same artist vibe that infuses the Asheville culture extends to the diverse selection of Airbnbs too. Treehouses, glass houses, glamping, luxury domes and more are a unique way to make your day yours. It’s a great way to have privacy in peak tourist season. As always, ask the host first to make sure you plans are ok! Even better, ask us — we have a network of the best hosts that would love to accommodate your plans. More info here: Airbnb Wedding Venues NC.

Where to Elope in Asheville with a small group

If you have a small group of up to 15 or so, then you’re going to need more space. Some of the places above may work if your group is small and they can hike; but in our experience once guests are added to the list, there are accessibility needs that need to be considered. This narrows the list to spots nearby parking or a short walk.

Locations on the Blue Ridge Parkway can be permitted for groups up to 25; just be careful about the road noise. Craggy Gardens is a beautiful mountain top meadow, not far from parking that can work for a group up to 25 (read more here: Craggy Gardens Wedding).

As you edge up from 15 to 25 guests, the options narrow to the point that often we switch to recommending an event friendly Airbnb for our couples so there is adequate space for all they want to include on their day; and then we go together somewhere in the mountains for time for just the two of them.

Where to Elope in Asheville with a Larger Guest List

For larger groups, private venues or event-friendly Airbnbs are the way to go, especially 20 or more. Above 30 is moving into microwedding territory and is usually too big for a vacation rental (although we have had exceptions to this!) and needs a small venue.

Something Blue Mountain Venue

This is location has an amazing view towards sunset and they even have ceremony and reception facilities for groups up to 30!

North Carolina Arboretum

While the Arboretum typically hosts large weddings, they also have elopement & intimate wedding packages too. Locations might be restricted and/or you may have to book a reception space too here (which often comes with required catering minimums, so be careful here). Still, it’s a beautiful option to catch blooms in a garden setting. We love to combine this location with mountain views too for part of your day!

Event Friendly Airbnbs

There are many vacation homes in the area that “fly under the radar” so to speak — meaning they aren’t the easiest to find but are open to small weddings, within certain parameters. Many will allow up to 50 guests (note that tent, chairs and sometimes porta potty rental are required). We know all the best ones and would love to recommend which would be the best fit for you!

Check out our full guide to Airbnb wedding venues in NC: Airbnb Wedding Venues NC.

What to Wear for Your Asheville Elopement

When it comes to eloping in Asheville, choosing the right attire is about balancing style, comfort, and practicality. Whether you’re exchanging vows on a mountaintop, by a waterfall, or in a cozy Airbnb, here are our top tips to help you feel amazing while staying prepared for anything the day might bring.

Wedding Attire: Dresses, Suits, Fit tips & more

Your wedding dress and suit should reflect your personal style while being comfortable enough to move around in—especially if your elopement involves hiking or exploring. Here are some things to keep in mind:

Wedding Dresses: Flowing, lightweight fabrics like chiffon and tulle work beautifully for elopements. They allow for ease of movement and look stunning in mountain breezes or waterfall mist. On the subject of trains, we’ve seen both longer and shorter. It sounds counterintuitive, but we tend to prefer long trains (as long as there is a bustle options). A long train can be conveniently draped over your arm as well to raise it above briars. In contrast shorter trains may not be as easy to hold and could actually be a little more difficult to hike in, ironically!
Suits: Lightweight wool or linen suits are great for keeping cool during warmer months, while tweed or wool blends are perfect for fall or winter elopements. Consider skipping the jacket or opting for suspenders if you’re going for a more laid-back look. Especially for a jacket and pants, fit and “give” is paramount here, guys. Our advice: splurge on what we call “James Bond” suits — they have a little stretch built in and will move with you wherever you go (just don’t go jumping off buildings on your wedding day!). Think if Underarmour made suits; that’s the idea.
Layer Up: Even in summer, mountain weather can be unpredictable. Bring a stylish shawl, wrap, or jacket that complements your outfit and keeps you cozy during cooler moments. We like two extra layers at minimum: something for warmth and something in case of rain. In colder seasons, leggings under your dress are a fabulous accessory!
Fit tips: This might sound silly but when you’re trying on attire, try jumping, sitting, crouching, reaching up and out, and dance a little bit too. Your elopement will feel adventurous and free, and you want your dress and suit to let you experience that and not hold you back.
More advice: Start shopping early, especially for a dress. Sometimes it takes months to get your perfect dress in the store and then typically you’ll want alterations too.

Shoes: Hiking Boots vs. Dress Shoes

Your choice of footwear is one of the most important decisions for an elopement in Asheville, especially if you’ll be walking on uneven trails or rocky terrain. There is a wide variety of what you’ll be walking on: wet trails, meadows, gravel, rocky outcroppings, and sometimes creek crossings too.

Hiking Boots: Sturdy, comfortable hiking boots are ideal for any elopement involving a hike. Look for boots with good ankle support and grip to keep you safe on rocky or slippery surfaces. Many of our couples bring hiking boots for the trek and switch to dress shoes for the ceremony. And definitely do not buy boots just before your elopement! If you need new shoes, give yourself a few months in advance to break them in and make sure the fit is right.
Dress Shoes: If you’ll be staying in one location or walking on flat, well-maintained paths, dress shoes can work just fine. We always lean towards suggesting outdoor footwear but for an Airbnb elopement you can get away with dress footwear. Just keep in mind that trails and grassy areas can be damp, especially in the morning or after rain, so waterproof soles are a plus. When in doubt, bring both dress and hiking shoes!

Be Ready for Rain: Bring Rain Gear

In the mountains, the weather can change quickly, especially in the high elevation areas where many of the best views are! Showers and storms can show up from nowhere. Being prepared with rain gear can save the day if the skies open up unexpectedly:

Umbrellas: Always bring clear umbrellas. Always. It makes the difference between gorgeous outdoor photos in a slow, misty (and dreamy) rain and getting wet. As long as it’s not windy, we have been out all day in a moody landscape with just these!
Rain Jackets: If showers turn to rain, have a lightweight, packable rain jackets handy. Choose jackets in colors that won’t clash with your attire. Rain shells double as wind protection too — it can definitely get windy at elevation!
Backup Plans: Don’t worry too much about a little rain though—it can actually create a beautiful, moody atmosphere to your photos! And if the weather turns to where it’s unsafe to be out (or you’re just done being out in the rain) we always have backup plans in place to keep your day running smoothly.

Packing & Changing at the Location

A question we often get is deciding between hiking in wedding attire or bringing it along. Generally speaking, if it’s a short and not strenuous hike, then we might opt for hiking in attire. It honestly depends on your tendency to sweat and comfort level in your attire. On the other hand, if your elopement involves hiking to a more remote location, we suggest packing your dress clothes in a backpack and changing once you arrive. This keeps your attire fresh and clean for photos while allowing you to hike comfortably. Then hiking back down (typically less strenuous) is often done in your wedding attire. (Sometimes, but not always, it depends!)

Here’s how we recommend planning on changing at location:

Packing Your Attire: Gently roll your dress or suit and pack it in a garment bag or dry bag to keep it clean and dry during the hike. We’ll show you how to fold everything properly to prevent wrinkles!
Changing on Site: Bring a pop-up changing tent for quick privacy or, if you prefer a more low-key solution, string a blanket or large scarf between two trees. We bring a lot of this stuff with us and have helped many couples set up makeshift changing areas—it’s not as awkward as you might think. Trust us, we know all the tricks to make it easy and comfortable!

Accessories: Final Touches

Don’t forget to bring accessories that complete your look while also being practical for the outdoors:

Hair Accessories: Keep in mind that mountain locations can be quite windy, so secure your hair with pins, or clips; and while we’re on the topic, an up-do, or half up half down are what we generally recommend for hair!
Bouquets & Boutonnieres: Wood or silk flowers are great for elopements in the mountains, as they won’t wilt or get damaged easily. While we love fresh flowers, they often aren’t allowed on public lands due to invasive species concerns so we always recommend other options.
Backpacks: If you’ll be hiking, a stylish, functional backpack is a must for carrying essentials like water, snacks, your attire, and any personal items. Choose a color you love!
For the guys: Don’t forget accessories! Scarves, cufflinks, pocket squares, custom embroidery, pocket watches are just a few ways to personalize your outfit.

Eloping in Asheville means adventure & style, and the right attire will help you enjoy your day and look amazing at the same time. Whether you’re hiking to a secluded mountain view, dancing under the stars, or want to walk next to a waterfall, we’re here to help you choose just the right wedding attire for your day.

Getting your Marriage license — all the details

Don’t forget about getting your marriage license! It’s a crucial step in planning your elopement in Asheville or anywhere in Western North Carolina (WNC). For a more detailed look at this topic, check out our post How to Get married in NC. Here’s an overview of what you need to know:

Where to Get an NC Marriage License

In North Carolina, you can pick up a marriage license from the Register of Deeds in any county, and it can be used statewide. Many couples in the Asheville area choose to get their license from the Buncombe County Register of Deeds. However, depending on your specific plans and location, it might be more convenient to visit the Register of Deeds in a different county within WNC. Transylvania, Henderson and Haywood may also be more convenient to where you are staying.

Application Process

Online Application: Some counties, like Buncombe, offer an online application process, allowing you to fill out your information ahead of time to expedite the in-person visit. Buncombe County register of deeds
In-Person Visit: Regardless of the county, both of you must appear in person at the Register of Deeds office to sign the application and present the required identification.

Required Documents

Both of you will need to provide valid photo identification, such as a driver’s license, state-issued ID, passport, or military ID; you’ll also need to provide Social Security Numbers. There also may be a requirement to show proof of divorce if you were previously married.

Fees

The standard fee for a marriage license in North Carolina is $60, though this can vary slightly by county. Payment methods accepted (cash, credit/debit, certified check) may also vary, so definitely check with the specific county’s Register of Deeds office.

License Validity

Validity Period: A marriage license is valid for 60 days from the date of issuance.
Usage: The license can be used for a ceremony anywhere within North Carolina. So if you live in NC it can be convenient to pick up the license locally before you travel to Asheville!
Return: After the ceremony, the completed license must be returned to the county where it was issued, typically within 10 days.

Additional info

Civil Ceremonies: In Buncombe County, civil ceremonies are an option, performed by a magistrate at the courthouse on Fridays from 8:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. No appointment is necessary, and the fee is $50, payable in exact cash. This can be a backup option if you’re not able to find an officiant — have a magistrate make it “official” and exchange your private vows during your elopement adventure.
Witnesses: North Carolina requires the presence of two witnesses during the marriage ceremony (they must also sign the marriage license).

Our Personalized Approach to Asheville Elopements

By now, you’ve probably realized that planning an elopement involves a lot of decisions—from deciding on your big picture vision, choosing the right locations and managing all the finer details too. That’s where we come in!

What’s different about our Asheville elopement packages?

Vision-Driven Design: We help you uncover what matters most to you and create a personalized plan that reflects your love story.
Comprehensive Planning: From permits and logistics to vendor recommendations and timelines, we handle all the details so you don’t have to.
Stress-Free Day: On the day itself, we’ll be by your side to ensure everything flows seamlessly, so you can focus on what truly matters—each other.

Here’s what one of our couples had to say about their experience with us:

“Mark and Carolyn were so incredibly friendly and helpful from the start! They truly listened to my vision for our day and bent over backwards to ensure that all of our dreams for our wedding day came true!”

Sarah & Michael

Two-day elopement in Asheville

Learn More about our Elopement Packages

All your questions answered about eloping in Asheville

Eloping in Asheville can range from $2,000 to $10,000+ depending on factors like if you try to DIY or have full planning services (which is our specialty); venue/location, group size, photography coverage, permits, accommodations, if you decide on a reception, and many other options for services. The beauty of an elopement is its flexibility—you can have an adventure for just the two of you, a whole day to enjoy just for yourselves, or a multi-dimensional experience blending an intimate ceremony with guests with multiple locations to adventure, a private chef, and luxury lodging. There really is no limit to what’s possible!

Looking for more help to estimate the budget you need for your elopement? Check out our Free Download: Elopement Budget Spreadsheet.

Yes, permits are required for elopements in certain locations, such as on the Blue Ridge Parkway. A permit may be required in Pisgah National Forest, and in some state parks. The type of permit depends on the location and group size. We handle all the permitting details for you, ensuring everything is in place so you can focus on your day!

Absolutely! Winter elopements offer a unique, quiet experience with fewer crowds and the possibility of snow. However, weather in the mountains can be unpredictable, and certain roads like the Blue Ridge Parkway may be closed due to snow or ice. We help plan backup locations and timelines to ensure your winter elopement goes smoothly, no matter the conditions. Check out this section above for more info: When to Elope in Asheville.

We recommend choosing attire that is both stylish and functional (check out our section above about what to wear!). For brides, lightweight, flowy dresses work well for hikes and photos out in nature. Layers are key for cooler mornings or evenings. Hiking boots are essential if you’ll be on any kind of adventure. We also suggest bringing a rain jacket and if you’re going to change into your attire on the hike, packing your dress & suit in a way that protects it in your backpack. We provide detailed guidance on packing and all the preparation for your elopement day!

There are countless breathtaking spots in and around Asheville that allow ceremonies, from mountaintops and waterfalls to secluded meadows too. However, finding the right one depends on your vision, group size, and the time of year. We know the best spots (both well-known and hidden gems) and would love to guide you in choosing a location that’s perfect for your elopement! More info here: Best Places to Elope in Asheville.

Yes… sort of. You pretty much have to book a wedding ceremony venue in the estate, and oftentimes they require a reception venue rental too, and then require catering minimums; and so on. Honestly, unless you are especially attached to photos in front of the Biltmore house with your wedding attire (they don’t allow couples on-site in wedding attire unless they’ve booked a wedding package), we feel like there are more ways to spend your elopement budget!

Yes, many of our couples choose to include close family and friends! For groups of 10–15, we know of beautiful and accessible locations that still offer privacy and great views. For larger groups, we recommend small venues or event-friendly Airbnbs. For elopements for two or with guests there are a lot of details to manage, and we handle all the logistics to ensure your experience is seamless! More details here: Asheville Elopement with Guests — tips and more.

There are many incredible Airbnbs and boutique lodging in and around Asheville that cater to couples looking for a unique experience. There is also a good selection of big vacation homes that can accommodate groups too. Depending on whether you want a cozy A-frame cabin in the mountains or something a little more modern, we know all the best spots! And for larger groups, we have a curated list of event-friendly vacation homes perfect for ceremonies and receptions for groups of around 20-30.

While most of our couples book more than a year in advance, others land on our calendar with a few months to plan, and sometimes even just a few weeks. We specialize in helping couples create incredible experiences no matter the timeline, but for the most effortless planning experience we always suggest at least a year in advance, because life can’t be put on pause.

Yes! Many of our couples choose to have something like a reception at the end of their day. It might look like a picnic for two or a private chef dinner, to a small reception either at a nearby venue or a vacation rental. Our elopements with guests love settings with string lights and dinner under the stars, or a large home with indoor space to entertain. There’s lots of options and we can help design a reception that perfectly complements your elopement day!

Every season in Asheville offers something unique. Spring brings blooming flowers and vibrant greenery (but note that spring in the mountains arrives late!), summer offers mild temperatures at higher elevations, fall is famous for gorgeous colors (and lots and lots of tourists), and winter provides peaceful, crowd-free experiences. Our advice is to consider a flexible date & we can guide you to the best time to visit for the landscape and experience you want. More info here: When to Elope in Asheville.

To legally get married in Asheville, you’ll need a marriage license from any North Carolina county Register of Deeds. The process is straightforward, and many counties offer online applications to speed things up. After your ceremony, your officiant will file the completed license with the issuing county. More info here: Getting your marriage license for an Asheville elopement.

There are three main paths for planning an elopement:

Full-service custom planning (like us): We don’t copy/paste someone else’s elopement to create your day. We provide a highly personalized experience, handling everything from creating a custom location guide for you to coordinating all the details on your day. Check out all that’s included in our packages here.
Partial planning services: These are a middle ground between the all-inclusive and full-service; there is an element of DIY but you also have some flexibility on customization.
All-inclusive companies: These offer pre-packaged elopements with minimal customization.

Full-service planning (our specialty): Everything is tailored to you. We don’t just provide a list of locations—we craft an entire day based on your love story and preferences. This ensures your elopement is unique, meaningful, and an experience no one else has seen before. Check out all that’s included in our packages here.
Partial planning services: More flexibility to personalize but limited to typical locations in the area
All-inclusive elopements: Think simple and quick; like a ceremony and a few photos. You’re left to choose the location and decide if it’s a good fit for you.

There’s a common misconception that elopements are short, quick ceremonies—just an hour or two, say your vows, take a few photos, and you’re done. While that’s true for many all-inclusive elopement packages, what we offer is a much more immersive and intentional experience.

Our elopements typically span 8 to 12 hours for a single day or even a multi-day experience (e.g., 10 hours on day one + 4 hours on day two). Why to this extent? Because we believe your elopement should be about more than just the ceremony—it’s about creating a full day (or two) that tells your love story, filled with meaningful moments, breathtaking adventures, and time to soak it all in.

Here’s what a custom, immersive elopement timeline might include:

Getting ready separately with your closest loved ones
A private first look moment
Exploring multiple scenic locations, such as mountaintops, waterfalls, or hidden trails
A beautifully crafted ceremony in an epic, private location
A celebratory picnic, champagne toast, or catered dinner
Time for personal moments, like writing letters, dancing under the stars, or relaxing by a fire

If you want a day that feels more like an incredible journey—a day or two filled with unforgettable memories, laughter, and connection—our custom elopement planning might be the perfect fit for you.

Absolutely! In fact, planning is one of the core services we provide. Unlike many companies that offer only basic coordination or a limited set of pre-packaged options, we take a full-service, comprehensive approach to elopement planning. Our goal is to craft a completely personalized experience that reflects who you are as a couple and ensures that every detail is thoughtfully handled. Check out all that’s included in our packages here.

Here’s what our elopement planning process looks like:

Custom Location Selection Whether you’re dreaming of a mountaintop ceremony at sunrise, a secluded waterfall, or a private Airbnb with scenic views, we help you find the perfect spot based on your vision. Our insider knowledge of Western NC (and the Southeast) means you’ll have access to hidden gems and off-the-beaten-path locations that most people never discover. There are a massive amount of options out there, and our job is to curate those down to a list which best suits your needs — so you don’t have to do the hard work of researching on your own.
Permit Assistance: Navigating the various permits required for public lands can be overwhelming. We handle the entire process, ensuring everything is in place so you don’t have to worry about a thing.
Vendor Recommendations: From officiants and florists to private chefs and musicians, we connect you with trusted local vendors who align with your style and preferences. We know which vendors work well in remote locations and how to coordinate them seamlessly.
Expert Timeline Design: We create a detailed, but also flexible timeline for your day that ensures everything flows naturally, with built-in time for spontaneous moments and “stopping to smell the flowers” on your adventures. The right timeline is both an art and science to keep things efficient but flow organically, and we’ve had years of experience creating them!
Day-Of Coordination: Think of us as both your photographers and your personal guides. On the day of your elopement, we’re there not just to capture every moment, but to ensure the day runs smoothly—from timing the hike perfectly for golden hour light to carrying “just in case” items for you, to helping you relax and enjoy every moment.
Backup Plans & Contingency Options: Mountain weather can be unpredictable, but we’ve got you covered with well-thought-out backup plans & intimate knowledge of how our mountains “behave.” Whether it’s shifting locations due to unexpected closures or adjusting the timeline to accommodate weather changes, we stay flexible so your day stays stress-free.

We don’t just help you plan your elopement—we help you create a one-of-a-kind experience that you’ll remember forever. By the time your day arrives, you can relax knowing every detail has been taken care of. Our couples often tell us that what they thought would be a stressful process turned out to be the most enjoyable part of their wedding journey because of how we handled everything for them.

Ready to Start Planning Your Asheville Elopement?

We hope this guide has sparked some inspiration for your day! Whether you’re dreaming of a sunrise mountaintop ceremony, a waterfall adventure, an intimate gathering with family, or all of the above; we’re here to help you create a day that’s unforgettable and uniquely yours!